Hanging to the Past

The title of this post is "Hanging to the Past".
Many times we hang on to past for very long... but why do we do that?

Is it because we feel we can correct or we feel we can change it....
The thing that one should not do is hanging to past.... it hurts.. it eats you up...it actually kills you from within because you keep on hoping to go back and change it if it was bad or live it again if it was good. But in any case you cannot do it, so why worry....

Rather we should change .... change is always good... change always helps... change is LIFE or rather its the change with brings happiness to LIFE because change brings anxiety, change brings new things... good or bad but its new... its a new experience for you.

One of my friend always says i am RIGID... i stick to past and keep on hanging to it...and with period of time i have realized i have lost a lot because of this...
When we keep looking at a closed door, we miss many new doors which are opened.

So its better to look at new doors and enjoy the change... so just move on in life... Move on with all bad things... move on with good things... decide what exactly you want more and whats worth it....

Looking at it from a different angle:

Actually LIFE is all about adjusting... if we look at change, its nothing but adjusting to new things as soon as possible. The more time we take in adjusting, the more its bad for us... Its this adjusting that we call CHANGE...

So its upto us to decide what we want .... "PAST" or "PRESENT and FUTURE"