Success and Happiness

Why do most people don't succeed? Why do majority just keep cribbing.. i couldn't do this, i didn't have time, i could have done if that would have happened blah blah blah....? But the ques is WHY ?

Reason is we dont maintain things properly. Like you need to maintain a thing, get it repaired, serviced etc from time to time, we need to do the same with us. Human beings are no less than a machine ;)
But it seems to be human nature to wait until something is not working in our lives before we change our priorities. This concept applies to all aspects of life. We just want all our troubles should get over automatically, we should do the least, rest should be done by someone else which many times we think GOD will do.. but please tell me why should GOD help you. Even if he exists why can't you help yourself..why cant you be happy yourself ???

Its human nature to do things under pressure, when things really go out of control then we relaize what went wrong, rather we should take care even before it started going wrong. Responding at a late time is what worsens the situation.

The other reason of not facing success is: Most people simply don’t stay in the game long enough to win it.They loose focus,  concentration. Steve Jobs once told in a speech that with time we loose our spark. It is this spark which keeps us alive, keeps us going. Its very necessary for long term goals. Quiting ealry is what i feel is the major cause of failure and the reason of quiting is unhappiness in sustaining the happiness for achieving the goal.

What we try is to measure everything, and its the measuring that breaks us down. You cannot measure happiness, our health, our relationships and the things we can't measure we ignore. and we fail.
Einstein said it best, “Not everything that matters can be measured and not everything that can be measured matters.”
Success not only means success in one field, a true success is success in every field of life.... work, health, relationships, peace of mind,professional success, personal success everything.
No point getting success in one field and failure in another, then also you cant be happy.
Happiness comes only when you have a mix of everything.

We just need to relax and sit and think what exactly do we want and what are we doing to achieve it.
and GO FOR IT ... ALL THE BEST :-)

Jeene Ke Liye Bhi Waqt Nahi..

Its been many days, was not getting time to write, actually there was many things i wanted to write on.. then i got these lines somewhere... they say it all....


Har khushi Hai Logon Ke Daman Mein,
Par Ek Hansi Ke Liye Waqt Nahi.
Din Raat Daudti Duniya Mein,
Zindagi Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.

Maa Ki Loree Ka Ehsaas To Hai,
Par Maa Ko Maa Kehne Ka Waqt Nahi.
Saare Rishton Ko To Hum Maar Chuke,
Ab Unhe Dafnane Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.

Saare Naam Mobile Mein Hain,
Par Dosti Ke Lye Waqt Nahi.
Gairon Ki Kya Baat Karen,
Jab Apno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.

Aankhon Me Hai Neend Badee,
Par Sone Ka Waqt Nahi.
Dil Hai Ghamon Se Bhara Hua,
Par Rone Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi .

Paison ki Daud Me Aise Daude,
Ki Thakne ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.
Paraye Ehsason Ki Kya Kadr Karein,
Jab Apane Sapno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.

Tu Hi Bata E Zindagi,
Iss Zindagi Ka Kya Hoga,
Ki Har Pal Marne Walon Ko,
Jeene Ke Liye Bhi Waqt Nahi.........

-Unknown