Trust !!!

Trust, Faith, Belief all go hand in hand.
When do you loose trust in someone? When do you doubt someone? When do you loose faith in something?

Whats important is not these WHEN question, whats important is the WHY !
Its just that you lose trust because you doubt, because you fear. Its the fear that makes us doubt, and its that doubt that takes away the long trust you had.
Once i got a message from a friend of mine.. it seemed so true to me. It goes like this:
FAITH is small word but has supreme implications..........
The problem with many is that... they have doubt in their faith and have faith in their doubt.

It takes ages to gain trust but it just takes a moment to loose it... strange but true........
Trust is like a mirror... clear but fragile. Till its in one piece you believe it to be true even though it shows you an image where left is on right and right is on left... that's how trust works.. till you trust everything is right.
But the moment that mirror has a crack, everything becomes a doubt, now even on the area its not cracked if it shows a tiny dot, you still doubt it and verify that... again strange but true... same with your trust on someone, the moment you loose it now everything is in doubt, every thing needs to be justified, every truth needs to be proved..... Isn't it unfair???  But that's how it is......

We lose faith because we test things, we as human have a bad habit of checking everything, checking every person and sometimes its that check that breaks the trust, and sometimes its true that we trusted a wrong person but sometimes it someone elses doubt that brings a doubt in our minds...sometimes its just a misunderstanding which bring that doubt......but in the end the reason never matters......

Its the doubt that breaks, its our fears that takes it all away... just believe more and fear less... give everyone a chance........ :) :)

When is Enough, Enough ?

When is Enough, Enough ?

How much is too much ?

Does anyone has answer to these questions... Sometimes there comes a time in your life when you start analyzing, start realizing that now its enough, it could be enough of work, enough of rest, enough of laziness, enough of hard work and no benefit, enough of a relationship, enough of getting hurt, enough of hurting others, enough of crying, enough of enjoying........... enough of anything...... enough of everything.........

Then you realize that you need to change... yes CHANGE... sometimes a point comes when you sit back and think what went wrong where, how much was it your mistake, how much was it natural and how much influential... but in the end the reason never matters, its the action...

You think and analyze, realize that its all waste as "jo hona hai wo hona hai"...
But still the question remains...

When does a person change?????
Change comes when there is excess of anything, excess of pain, excess of being hurt, excess of happiness, excess of good or excess of bad...
Its that tipping point which causes a change in a person or anything...

There is a beautiful song Change by Tracy Chapman on this ...

The lyrics goes like this...

How bad, how good does it need to get?
How many losses? How much regret?
What chain reaction would cause an effect?
Makes you turn around,
Makes you try to explain,
Makes you forgive and forget,
Makes you change?

Change is the only thing constant in the Universe!!

Change brings hope, change brings anxiety, change bring something new...
Sometimes change is for good, sometimes you have no other option... one needs to change to progress, because if you keep doing what are you doing, then you will always get what you are always getting.
So if you want something different, something better you have to change, and its the change that brings spark in ones life.. change bring fun, change is good...........