Trust, Faith, Belief all go hand in hand.
When do you loose trust in someone? When do you doubt someone? When do you loose faith in something?
Whats important is not these WHEN question, whats important is the WHY !
Its just that you lose trust because you doubt, because you fear. Its the fear that makes us doubt, and its that doubt that takes away the long trust you had.
Once i got a message from a friend of mine.. it seemed so true to me. It goes like this:
FAITH is small word but has supreme implications..........
The problem with many is that... they have doubt in their faith and have faith in their doubt.
It takes ages to gain trust but it just takes a moment to loose it... strange but true........
Trust is like a mirror... clear but fragile. Till its in one piece you believe it to be true even though it shows you an image where left is on right and right is on left... that's how trust works.. till you trust everything is right.
But the moment that mirror has a crack, everything becomes a doubt, now even on the area its not cracked if it shows a tiny dot, you still doubt it and verify that... again strange but true... same with your trust on someone, the moment you loose it now everything is in doubt, every thing needs to be justified, every truth needs to be proved..... Isn't it unfair??? But that's how it is......
We lose faith because we test things, we as human have a bad habit of checking everything, checking every person and sometimes its that check that breaks the trust, and sometimes its true that we trusted a wrong person but sometimes it someone elses doubt that brings a doubt in our minds...sometimes its just a misunderstanding which bring that doubt......but in the end the reason never matters......
Its the doubt that breaks, its our fears that takes it all away... just believe more and fear less... give everyone a chance........ :) :)
Saturday, October 23, 2010
Monday, October 11, 2010
When is Enough, Enough ?
When is Enough, Enough ?
How much is too much ?
Does anyone has answer to these questions... Sometimes there comes a time in your life when you start analyzing, start realizing that now its enough, it could be enough of work, enough of rest, enough of laziness, enough of hard work and no benefit, enough of a relationship, enough of getting hurt, enough of hurting others, enough of crying, enough of enjoying........... enough of anything...... enough of everything.........
Then you realize that you need to change... yes CHANGE... sometimes a point comes when you sit back and think what went wrong where, how much was it your mistake, how much was it natural and how much influential... but in the end the reason never matters, its the action...
You think and analyze, realize that its all waste as "jo hona hai wo hona hai"...
But still the question remains...
When does a person change?????
Change comes when there is excess of anything, excess of pain, excess of being hurt, excess of happiness, excess of good or excess of bad...
Its that tipping point which causes a change in a person or anything...
There is a beautiful song Change by Tracy Chapman on this ...
The lyrics goes like this...
How bad, how good does it need to get?
How many losses? How much regret?
What chain reaction would cause an effect?
Makes you turn around,
Makes you try to explain,
Makes you forgive and forget,
Makes you change?
How many losses? How much regret?
What chain reaction would cause an effect?
Makes you turn around,
Makes you try to explain,
Makes you forgive and forget,
Makes you change?
Change is the only thing constant in the Universe!!
Change brings hope, change brings anxiety, change bring something new...
Sometimes change is for good, sometimes you have no other option... one needs to change to progress, because if you keep doing what are you doing, then you will always get what you are always getting.
So if you want something different, something better you have to change, and its the change that brings spark in ones life.. change bring fun, change is good...........
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Success and Happiness
Why do most people don't succeed? Why do majority just keep cribbing.. i couldn't do this, i didn't have time, i could have done if that would have happened blah blah blah....? But the ques is WHY ?
Reason is we dont maintain things properly. Like you need to maintain a thing, get it repaired, serviced etc from time to time, we need to do the same with us. Human beings are no less than a machine ;)
But it seems to be human nature to wait until something is not working in our lives before we change our priorities. This concept applies to all aspects of life. We just want all our troubles should get over automatically, we should do the least, rest should be done by someone else which many times we think GOD will do.. but please tell me why should GOD help you. Even if he exists why can't you help yourself..why cant you be happy yourself ???
Its human nature to do things under pressure, when things really go out of control then we relaize what went wrong, rather we should take care even before it started going wrong. Responding at a late time is what worsens the situation.
The other reason of not facing success is: Most people simply don’t stay in the game long enough to win it.They loose focus, concentration. Steve Jobs once told in a speech that with time we loose our spark. It is this spark which keeps us alive, keeps us going. Its very necessary for long term goals. Quiting ealry is what i feel is the major cause of failure and the reason of quiting is unhappiness in sustaining the happiness for achieving the goal.
What we try is to measure everything, and its the measuring that breaks us down. You cannot measure happiness, our health, our relationships and the things we can't measure we ignore. and we fail.
Einstein said it best, “Not everything that matters can be measured and not everything that can be measured matters.”
Success not only means success in one field, a true success is success in every field of life.... work, health, relationships, peace of mind,professional success, personal success everything.
No point getting success in one field and failure in another, then also you cant be happy.
Happiness comes only when you have a mix of everything.
We just need to relax and sit and think what exactly do we want and what are we doing to achieve it.
and GO FOR IT ... ALL THE BEST :-)
Reason is we dont maintain things properly. Like you need to maintain a thing, get it repaired, serviced etc from time to time, we need to do the same with us. Human beings are no less than a machine ;)
But it seems to be human nature to wait until something is not working in our lives before we change our priorities. This concept applies to all aspects of life. We just want all our troubles should get over automatically, we should do the least, rest should be done by someone else which many times we think GOD will do.. but please tell me why should GOD help you. Even if he exists why can't you help yourself..why cant you be happy yourself ???
Its human nature to do things under pressure, when things really go out of control then we relaize what went wrong, rather we should take care even before it started going wrong. Responding at a late time is what worsens the situation.
The other reason of not facing success is: Most people simply don’t stay in the game long enough to win it.They loose focus, concentration. Steve Jobs once told in a speech that with time we loose our spark. It is this spark which keeps us alive, keeps us going. Its very necessary for long term goals. Quiting ealry is what i feel is the major cause of failure and the reason of quiting is unhappiness in sustaining the happiness for achieving the goal.
What we try is to measure everything, and its the measuring that breaks us down. You cannot measure happiness, our health, our relationships and the things we can't measure we ignore. and we fail.
Einstein said it best, “Not everything that matters can be measured and not everything that can be measured matters.”
Success not only means success in one field, a true success is success in every field of life.... work, health, relationships, peace of mind,professional success, personal success everything.
No point getting success in one field and failure in another, then also you cant be happy.
Happiness comes only when you have a mix of everything.
We just need to relax and sit and think what exactly do we want and what are we doing to achieve it.
and GO FOR IT ... ALL THE BEST :-)
Wednesday, September 8, 2010
Jeene Ke Liye Bhi Waqt Nahi..
Its been many days, was not getting time to write, actually there was many things i wanted to write on.. then i got these lines somewhere... they say it all....
Har khushi Hai Logon Ke Daman Mein,
Par Ek Hansi Ke Liye Waqt Nahi.
Din Raat Daudti Duniya Mein,
Zindagi Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.
Maa Ki Loree Ka Ehsaas To Hai,
Par Maa Ko Maa Kehne Ka Waqt Nahi.
Saare Rishton Ko To Hum Maar Chuke,
Ab Unhe Dafnane Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.
Saare Naam Mobile Mein Hain,
Par Dosti Ke Lye Waqt Nahi.
Gairon Ki Kya Baat Karen,
Jab Apno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.
Aankhon Me Hai Neend Badee,
Par Sone Ka Waqt Nahi.
Dil Hai Ghamon Se Bhara Hua,
Par Rone Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi .
Paison ki Daud Me Aise Daude,
Ki Thakne ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.
Paraye Ehsason Ki Kya Kadr Karein,
Jab Apane Sapno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.
Tu Hi Bata E Zindagi,
Iss Zindagi Ka Kya Hoga,
Ki Har Pal Marne Walon Ko,
Jeene Ke Liye Bhi Waqt Nahi.........
-Unknown
Har khushi Hai Logon Ke Daman Mein,
Par Ek Hansi Ke Liye Waqt Nahi.
Din Raat Daudti Duniya Mein,
Zindagi Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.
Maa Ki Loree Ka Ehsaas To Hai,
Par Maa Ko Maa Kehne Ka Waqt Nahi.
Saare Rishton Ko To Hum Maar Chuke,
Ab Unhe Dafnane Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.
Saare Naam Mobile Mein Hain,
Par Dosti Ke Lye Waqt Nahi.
Gairon Ki Kya Baat Karen,
Jab Apno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.
Aankhon Me Hai Neend Badee,
Par Sone Ka Waqt Nahi.
Dil Hai Ghamon Se Bhara Hua,
Par Rone Ka Bhi Waqt Nahi .
Paison ki Daud Me Aise Daude,
Ki Thakne ka Bhi Waqt Nahi.
Paraye Ehsason Ki Kya Kadr Karein,
Jab Apane Sapno Ke Liye Hi Waqt Nahi.
Tu Hi Bata E Zindagi,
Iss Zindagi Ka Kya Hoga,
Ki Har Pal Marne Walon Ko,
Jeene Ke Liye Bhi Waqt Nahi.........
-Unknown
Friday, August 27, 2010
Branding and Costing
So this post is about BRANDING and COSTING.
What determines cost? its not the quality, its not the quantity... its just the BRAND. Be it anything, branding is the only point why you but a product. thats why it is said packaging is important than the content, be it any product, or your life or anything.
By branding i mean, the name it is given, the value anything has is not what it actually is, but it is by what others think of it. You go to market and you will pick anything even if you have not used it but if you have seen it on TV lot of times, or you have heard your neighbor talking about it. I have seen others and even myself that we leave a product we had be using long to try something new, we do it based on how much others have branded it. Thats the main reason why companies spend so much on advertising, because advertising is what creates a brand.
You will never question the cost in Adidas, Reebok, Woodland showroom about the cost of any shoe, you wont bargain.. ever thought why..not because its quality is good or something ... because of the BRAND.
Once a brand is established , now you need nothing... add as many zeros to the cost as you think and you can sell it. People are crazy about brand. the most interesting part is, to make a bigger brand, just increase the cost, nothing else.
Everyone knows Quality has a upper limit, so everyone is making good quality goods, its just if your cost is more so you are a bigger brand and a bigger style statement ;)
Even if it comes to yourself, if you can make yourself a brand, you can go places, you can rock the world. Take for eg Ankit Fadia.. go google him.. you will find everywhere written "self proclaimed hacker".. In the wikipedia article every line starts with "he claims...." , so nothing is true, its just he has made himself a brand and he is making money.
If Picasso signed a painting it becomes priceless, if its not branding then what is it ?
Go for Google instead... Majority of Google products are nothing but acquisitions, Google made nothing from scratch in-house. What do they do, they buy a small company, give it a BRAND name called GOOGLE, and you are done. It is sold.
This all was about branding your company, products etc, but this applies to real life also.
Have you ever noticed someone in your group, team, class is most popular, is not popular because he has something extraordinary, its just because majority thinks so. So if everyone says that you Mr X is good in so n so, you cannot deny even though you didnt find it that good because everyone else does.
So moral is just brand yourself and then you are done. It reminds me of a story of 5 monkeys kept in a cage, and a banana is there on the ladder, and whichever monkey tries to go for the banana, all other monkey are sprayed with chilled water. Some time later whenever a monkey tries to go for the banana, all other stop him to save themselves from cold water. Now a monkey is replaced a new one, this new monkey unaware of the consequences tries to climb the ladder, and is beaten up by remaining four. Now one more monkey is replaced with new one and now this first monkey also beats this new one unaware of the reason why he is doing so, just because everyone else is doing. Then third, fourth, fifth monkeys are also replaced one by one.
After replacing all the original monkeys, none of the remaining monkeys have ever been sprayed with cold water. Nevertheless, no monkey ever again approaches the stairs to try for the banana.
Why not?
Because as far as they know that's the way it's always been done around here.
That's BRANDING, noone knows why is a brand X better than brand Y. It the cost which make a brand bigger as it becomes fashion statement. Almost all brands give best quality, its just whichever makes a bigger hype, it bigger and you just follow the trend of market, you follow the masses like those monkeys. What everyone says or does is right ;)
What determines cost? its not the quality, its not the quantity... its just the BRAND. Be it anything, branding is the only point why you but a product. thats why it is said packaging is important than the content, be it any product, or your life or anything.
By branding i mean, the name it is given, the value anything has is not what it actually is, but it is by what others think of it. You go to market and you will pick anything even if you have not used it but if you have seen it on TV lot of times, or you have heard your neighbor talking about it. I have seen others and even myself that we leave a product we had be using long to try something new, we do it based on how much others have branded it. Thats the main reason why companies spend so much on advertising, because advertising is what creates a brand.
You will never question the cost in Adidas, Reebok, Woodland showroom about the cost of any shoe, you wont bargain.. ever thought why..not because its quality is good or something ... because of the BRAND.
Once a brand is established , now you need nothing... add as many zeros to the cost as you think and you can sell it. People are crazy about brand. the most interesting part is, to make a bigger brand, just increase the cost, nothing else.
Everyone knows Quality has a upper limit, so everyone is making good quality goods, its just if your cost is more so you are a bigger brand and a bigger style statement ;)
Even if it comes to yourself, if you can make yourself a brand, you can go places, you can rock the world. Take for eg Ankit Fadia.. go google him.. you will find everywhere written "self proclaimed hacker".. In the wikipedia article every line starts with "he claims...." , so nothing is true, its just he has made himself a brand and he is making money.
If Picasso signed a painting it becomes priceless, if its not branding then what is it ?
Go for Google instead... Majority of Google products are nothing but acquisitions, Google made nothing from scratch in-house. What do they do, they buy a small company, give it a BRAND name called GOOGLE, and you are done. It is sold.
This all was about branding your company, products etc, but this applies to real life also.
Have you ever noticed someone in your group, team, class is most popular, is not popular because he has something extraordinary, its just because majority thinks so. So if everyone says that you Mr X is good in so n so, you cannot deny even though you didnt find it that good because everyone else does.
So moral is just brand yourself and then you are done. It reminds me of a story of 5 monkeys kept in a cage, and a banana is there on the ladder, and whichever monkey tries to go for the banana, all other monkey are sprayed with chilled water. Some time later whenever a monkey tries to go for the banana, all other stop him to save themselves from cold water. Now a monkey is replaced a new one, this new monkey unaware of the consequences tries to climb the ladder, and is beaten up by remaining four. Now one more monkey is replaced with new one and now this first monkey also beats this new one unaware of the reason why he is doing so, just because everyone else is doing. Then third, fourth, fifth monkeys are also replaced one by one.
After replacing all the original monkeys, none of the remaining monkeys have ever been sprayed with cold water. Nevertheless, no monkey ever again approaches the stairs to try for the banana.
Why not?
Because as far as they know that's the way it's always been done around here.
That's BRANDING, noone knows why is a brand X better than brand Y. It the cost which make a brand bigger as it becomes fashion statement. Almost all brands give best quality, its just whichever makes a bigger hype, it bigger and you just follow the trend of market, you follow the masses like those monkeys. What everyone says or does is right ;)
Wednesday, July 28, 2010
Hanging to the Past
The title of this post is "Hanging to the Past".
Many times we hang on to past for very long... but why do we do that?
Is it because we feel we can correct or we feel we can change it....
The thing that one should not do is hanging to past.... it hurts.. it eats you up...it actually kills you from within because you keep on hoping to go back and change it if it was bad or live it again if it was good. But in any case you cannot do it, so why worry....
Rather we should change .... change is always good... change always helps... change is LIFE or rather its the change with brings happiness to LIFE because change brings anxiety, change brings new things... good or bad but its new... its a new experience for you.
One of my friend always says i am RIGID... i stick to past and keep on hanging to it...and with period of time i have realized i have lost a lot because of this...
When we keep looking at a closed door, we miss many new doors which are opened.
So its better to look at new doors and enjoy the change... so just move on in life... Move on with all bad things... move on with good things... decide what exactly you want more and whats worth it....
Looking at it from a different angle:
Actually LIFE is all about adjusting... if we look at change, its nothing but adjusting to new things as soon as possible. The more time we take in adjusting, the more its bad for us... Its this adjusting that we call CHANGE...
So its upto us to decide what we want .... "PAST" or "PRESENT and FUTURE"
Many times we hang on to past for very long... but why do we do that?
Is it because we feel we can correct or we feel we can change it....
The thing that one should not do is hanging to past.... it hurts.. it eats you up...it actually kills you from within because you keep on hoping to go back and change it if it was bad or live it again if it was good. But in any case you cannot do it, so why worry....
Rather we should change .... change is always good... change always helps... change is LIFE or rather its the change with brings happiness to LIFE because change brings anxiety, change brings new things... good or bad but its new... its a new experience for you.
One of my friend always says i am RIGID... i stick to past and keep on hanging to it...and with period of time i have realized i have lost a lot because of this...
When we keep looking at a closed door, we miss many new doors which are opened.
So its better to look at new doors and enjoy the change... so just move on in life... Move on with all bad things... move on with good things... decide what exactly you want more and whats worth it....
Looking at it from a different angle:
Actually LIFE is all about adjusting... if we look at change, its nothing but adjusting to new things as soon as possible. The more time we take in adjusting, the more its bad for us... Its this adjusting that we call CHANGE...
So its upto us to decide what we want .... "PAST" or "PRESENT and FUTURE"
Saturday, July 17, 2010
LIFE... Destiny... Again
We all are confused many times, rather i should say every time when we have multiple options for anything, be it small thing like buying something to as big as deciding your career path etc.
But sometimes when you have decided everything, taken some steps and you feel everything is going as per plan, thats the time when suddenly something will happen and your whole world will go upside down... Now you are in a dilemma weather your decision was right, weather you should rethink. This now starts in your mind and you are again back to square-one, again confused :(
Life is not that simple, its full of ups and downs.
And i thinks it rightly said... It does not matter which road you choose, it matters which ones you leave... and taking right decisions and moves at the right time is what is called Success.
This can also be taken as Destiny... Many relate it to destiny, luck etc etc
But is your fate really written??
I am not sure because sometimes i start feeling +ve about it and sometimes -ve.
Again i am confused, so i have stopped thinking :)
Best solution for everything is to be just happy... enjoy LIFE as it is rahter than analyzing on it and understanding it
But sometimes when you have decided everything, taken some steps and you feel everything is going as per plan, thats the time when suddenly something will happen and your whole world will go upside down... Now you are in a dilemma weather your decision was right, weather you should rethink. This now starts in your mind and you are again back to square-one, again confused :(
Life is not that simple, its full of ups and downs.
And i thinks it rightly said... It does not matter which road you choose, it matters which ones you leave... and taking right decisions and moves at the right time is what is called Success.
This can also be taken as Destiny... Many relate it to destiny, luck etc etc
But is your fate really written??
I am not sure because sometimes i start feeling +ve about it and sometimes -ve.
Again i am confused, so i have stopped thinking :)
Best solution for everything is to be just happy... enjoy LIFE as it is rahter than analyzing on it and understanding it
Saturday, July 10, 2010
SIGNALS ???
Do you believe in SIGNALS ?? By signals I mean, signals from GOD or from anything which is not human.
I don’t believe in GOD, I accept I am an atheist, but I believe in signals, whenever I am confused, or I am unable to take any decision, then I just ask the question and the first response that comes to my mind I accept as answer. I don’t know if it’s GOD’s answer or just my inner self, whatever it may be but it helps me deciding.
These can be called GOD signals or just crap way of deciding, your wish :)
I sometimes also do things like I just say if X or Y events happen then this means I will do A else B. I just wait for them to happen to help me in my decisions, this is what I call SIGNALS. These X or Y can be as stupid as someone crossing my way to anything which has a less probability so that happening of that event makes me sure that its kind of some signal.
But the question why am I thinking for this SIGNAL philosophy being right or wrong.
Actually it all started some time back, a year back no I think just a week back. All signals I were getting from past 1Year and all my actions based on them, seemed to be wrong,. What made them seem wrong, its actually few signals I got in this last hectic week. Week was hectic as far as my work life is concerned, but also because of the mental thinking I did, all signals this week contradicted my signals of past one year. Now either I misinterpreted them or maybe I did just wrong, I dunno, what these new signals mean and I don’t even want to think anymore. Jo hona tha ho gaya :)
But the question still remains….. Do these SIGNALS really matter ???
I don’t believe in GOD, I accept I am an atheist, but I believe in signals, whenever I am confused, or I am unable to take any decision, then I just ask the question and the first response that comes to my mind I accept as answer. I don’t know if it’s GOD’s answer or just my inner self, whatever it may be but it helps me deciding.
These can be called GOD signals or just crap way of deciding, your wish :)
I sometimes also do things like I just say if X or Y events happen then this means I will do A else B. I just wait for them to happen to help me in my decisions, this is what I call SIGNALS. These X or Y can be as stupid as someone crossing my way to anything which has a less probability so that happening of that event makes me sure that its kind of some signal.
But the question why am I thinking for this SIGNAL philosophy being right or wrong.
Actually it all started some time back, a year back no I think just a week back. All signals I were getting from past 1Year and all my actions based on them, seemed to be wrong,. What made them seem wrong, its actually few signals I got in this last hectic week. Week was hectic as far as my work life is concerned, but also because of the mental thinking I did, all signals this week contradicted my signals of past one year. Now either I misinterpreted them or maybe I did just wrong, I dunno, what these new signals mean and I don’t even want to think anymore. Jo hona tha ho gaya :)
But the question still remains….. Do these SIGNALS really matter ???
Monday, March 1, 2010
Change....
Why do we change... why do everyone change... Is it necessary to change... Is it mandatory to change... CHANGE !! Its a heavy word....
Time changes... People change... Life change...
Actually i have seen a drastic change in my life in last 9 months... Its been a 180* degree flip.Just few months back i used to be in hostel, now i am in a flat. I am earning now, working in a big IT firm. But is it all that has changed...NO.. there's a lot that has changed... with this my whole life, people around me have changed, people whom i used to be with have changed........................
List of people who i used to interact has completely changed... All old frnds gone... new names in.. i don't know if they r friends or not.. or previous ones were friends ... i don't know.. i really don't know why everything change..and change so fast.....
Now we don't have time for those with whom we used to spend 24hrs..Its just that priorities have changed...again the word CHANGE...
Thats how life has to go.. if u won't change, you won't improve.
For everything you have to change... good or bad.. but change has to come.. else u r not alive, For being alive u need to continuously change..I think that's the reason everyone is changing...
I just hope change is for good...
Time changes... People change... Life change...
Actually i have seen a drastic change in my life in last 9 months... Its been a 180* degree flip.Just few months back i used to be in hostel, now i am in a flat. I am earning now, working in a big IT firm. But is it all that has changed...NO.. there's a lot that has changed... with this my whole life, people around me have changed, people whom i used to be with have changed........................
List of people who i used to interact has completely changed... All old frnds gone... new names in.. i don't know if they r friends or not.. or previous ones were friends ... i don't know.. i really don't know why everything change..and change so fast.....
Now we don't have time for those with whom we used to spend 24hrs..Its just that priorities have changed...again the word CHANGE...
Thats how life has to go.. if u won't change, you won't improve.
For everything you have to change... good or bad.. but change has to come.. else u r not alive, For being alive u need to continuously change..I think that's the reason everyone is changing...
I just hope change is for good...
Monday, January 4, 2010
GOD - what does that word mean to you ?
GOD !! Some say it means a lot... some say it means everything... but does anyone know the real significance... real meaning of that word ???
Do u think there is someone up there watching you? Do u feel there is someone who will punish you for your wrong deeds? Do u feel there is someone who knows everything? Do u feel there is someone who controls everything?
If your answer is YES for any of the above question.. then u believe in GOD.
But is just believing the end of it. I don't think so. We all know we work when we are under pressure or fear.. it is that fear which we created... our ancestors created.. so that there is someone from whom we can fear...
One of my friend always says "We pay for our sins".
I feel its true but to some extent. There was a time when i didn't used to believe in all this.. but then things happened in such fashion that i was made to believe that yes.. there is someone seeing us.. someone monitoring... someone controlling... It is HE who makes us PAY FOR OUR SINS.
Earlier i didn't even used to believe in LUCK.. but sometimes somethings happen with you in such a manner that you have no logical explanation to it... you can call it coincidence but coincidence happens once or twice not many times... So when strange things happen with you multiple times you are forced to believe that yes there is something controlling us.. you can call it GOD.. or whatever... I feel it's just inside us.. we needed someone to fear from so we created a figure.
When we get good things in life.. we say we worked hard so we got it.. at max we will say thank you god. But when something bad happens we say.. we are not lucky.. my fate is bad.. my destiny etc etc etc.. why !! why !!
When you can do good.. you can also do bad...
That is where GOD comes into play. We HUMANS need someone to rely on.. someone to ask help to.. someone whom we can turn upon when we are helpless.. that is when we need GOD.
It's very simple.. whenever we are sad or upset.. we feel good by telling it to a close friend.. similarly we need someone to say when we get bad things.. we say GOD will help us.. we leave everything on him and then we can be relaxed and continue.. thinking that he is there for me.
GOD is something we created for our own BENEFIT !!
Someone we created to throw all our worries and relax !!
I don't say it's bad.. it's perfectly normal.. we need someone to help us so we think HE will help us......It's not being jealous.. its just being HUMAN.
YES IT's BEING HUMAN !!
Do u think there is someone up there watching you? Do u feel there is someone who will punish you for your wrong deeds? Do u feel there is someone who knows everything? Do u feel there is someone who controls everything?
If your answer is YES for any of the above question.. then u believe in GOD.
But is just believing the end of it. I don't think so. We all know we work when we are under pressure or fear.. it is that fear which we created... our ancestors created.. so that there is someone from whom we can fear...
One of my friend always says "We pay for our sins".
I feel its true but to some extent. There was a time when i didn't used to believe in all this.. but then things happened in such fashion that i was made to believe that yes.. there is someone seeing us.. someone monitoring... someone controlling... It is HE who makes us PAY FOR OUR SINS.
Earlier i didn't even used to believe in LUCK.. but sometimes somethings happen with you in such a manner that you have no logical explanation to it... you can call it coincidence but coincidence happens once or twice not many times... So when strange things happen with you multiple times you are forced to believe that yes there is something controlling us.. you can call it GOD.. or whatever... I feel it's just inside us.. we needed someone to fear from so we created a figure.
When we get good things in life.. we say we worked hard so we got it.. at max we will say thank you god. But when something bad happens we say.. we are not lucky.. my fate is bad.. my destiny etc etc etc.. why !! why !!
When you can do good.. you can also do bad...
That is where GOD comes into play. We HUMANS need someone to rely on.. someone to ask help to.. someone whom we can turn upon when we are helpless.. that is when we need GOD.
It's very simple.. whenever we are sad or upset.. we feel good by telling it to a close friend.. similarly we need someone to say when we get bad things.. we say GOD will help us.. we leave everything on him and then we can be relaxed and continue.. thinking that he is there for me.
GOD is something we created for our own BENEFIT !!
Someone we created to throw all our worries and relax !!
I don't say it's bad.. it's perfectly normal.. we need someone to help us so we think HE will help us......It's not being jealous.. its just being HUMAN.
YES IT's BEING HUMAN !!
Saturday, January 2, 2010
The First One
SO here i am writing my philosophies... those philosophies which either used to discuss with myself or write in my personal diary :) :)
Finally here i start .... my experiences of life... my beliefs in LIFE... in GOD.. etc etc
and all those reading... READ AT YOUR OWN RISK...
as of now i can just say that... whatever u feel... just do it
DON'T STOP BELIEVING... HOLD ON THAT FEELING...
Thats it... its the first post... so let it be small.. :)
Finally here i start .... my experiences of life... my beliefs in LIFE... in GOD.. etc etc
and all those reading... READ AT YOUR OWN RISK...
as of now i can just say that... whatever u feel... just do it
DON'T STOP BELIEVING... HOLD ON THAT FEELING...
Thats it... its the first post... so let it be small.. :)
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