Hanging to the Past

The title of this post is "Hanging to the Past".
Many times we hang on to past for very long... but why do we do that?

Is it because we feel we can correct or we feel we can change it....
The thing that one should not do is hanging to past.... it hurts.. it eats you up...it actually kills you from within because you keep on hoping to go back and change it if it was bad or live it again if it was good. But in any case you cannot do it, so why worry....

Rather we should change .... change is always good... change always helps... change is LIFE or rather its the change with brings happiness to LIFE because change brings anxiety, change brings new things... good or bad but its new... its a new experience for you.

One of my friend always says i am RIGID... i stick to past and keep on hanging to it...and with period of time i have realized i have lost a lot because of this...
When we keep looking at a closed door, we miss many new doors which are opened.

So its better to look at new doors and enjoy the change... so just move on in life... Move on with all bad things... move on with good things... decide what exactly you want more and whats worth it....

Looking at it from a different angle:

Actually LIFE is all about adjusting... if we look at change, its nothing but adjusting to new things as soon as possible. The more time we take in adjusting, the more its bad for us... Its this adjusting that we call CHANGE...

So its upto us to decide what we want .... "PAST" or "PRESENT and FUTURE"

LIFE... Destiny... Again

We all are confused many times, rather i should say every time when we have multiple options for anything, be it small thing like buying something to as big as deciding your career path etc.

But sometimes when you have decided everything, taken some steps and you feel everything is going as per plan, thats the time when suddenly something will happen and your whole world will go upside down... Now you are in a dilemma weather your decision was right, weather you should rethink. This now starts in your mind and you are again back to square-one, again confused :(

Life is not that simple, its full of ups and downs.
And i thinks it rightly said... It does not matter which road you choose, it matters which ones you leave... and taking right decisions and moves at the right time is what is called Success.

This can also be taken as Destiny... Many relate it to destiny, luck etc etc
But is your fate really written??
I am not sure because sometimes i start feeling +ve about it and sometimes -ve.
Again i am confused, so i have stopped thinking :)

Best solution for everything is to be just happy... enjoy LIFE as it is rahter than analyzing on it and understanding it

SIGNALS ???

Do you believe in SIGNALS ?? By signals I mean, signals from GOD or from anything which is not human.

I don’t believe in GOD, I accept I am an atheist, but I believe in signals, whenever I am confused, or I am unable to take any decision, then I just ask the question and the first response that comes to my mind I accept as answer. I don’t know if it’s GOD’s answer or just my inner self, whatever it may be but it helps me deciding.

These can be called GOD signals or just crap way of deciding, your wish :)
I sometimes also do things like I just say if X or Y events happen then this means I will do A else B. I just wait for them to happen to help me in my decisions, this is what I call SIGNALS. These X or Y can be as stupid as someone crossing my way to anything which has a less probability so that happening of that event makes me sure that its kind of some signal.

But the question why am I thinking for this SIGNAL philosophy being right or wrong.
Actually it all started some time back, a year back no I think just a week back. All signals I were getting from past 1Year and all my actions based on them, seemed to be wrong,. What made them seem wrong, its actually few signals I got in this last hectic week. Week was hectic as far as my work life is concerned, but also because of the mental thinking I did, all signals this week contradicted my signals of past one year. Now either I misinterpreted them or maybe I did just wrong, I dunno, what these new signals mean and I don’t even want to think anymore. Jo hona tha ho gaya :)

But the question still remains….. Do these SIGNALS really matter ???